Developing the Resilience of a Top Performer

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Maybe you’ve seen or heard of people overcome tremendous hurdles to become the best in their fields. Many failures come with that level of success, but what gives them the ability to be so resilient? Let’s explore what it takes to achieve superstar-level resilience.

1. Positive Mindset:

Top performers tend to maintain an optimistic outlook, even in the face of challenges. They see setbacks as temporary obstacles rather than insurmountable failures. Cultivating a positive mindset helps them approach difficulties with a solution-oriented attitude.

2. Learning from Setbacks:

The mentally strong view failures and setbacks as valuable learning experiences. Instead of dwelling on the negative aspects, they analyze what went wrong, extract lessons, and use that knowledge to improve in the future. The lessons learned during this time tend to be the most valuable. This adaptive learning process contributes to their overall resilience.

3. Flexibility and Adaptability:

Resilient individuals are flexible and adaptable. They understand that change is a constant in the business world, and rather than resisting it, they embrace it. This ability to pivot and adapt to new circumstances allows them to navigate challenges with greater ease.

4. Coping Strategies:

Top performers often have effective coping strategies to manage stress and pressure. Whether it's through mindfulness practices, exercise, or other stress-reducing activities, they find ways to recharge and maintain emotional well-being during challenging times. On a personal level, I take quick naps during lunch and work out in the morning.

5. Support Networks:

Resilient individuals surround themselves with supportive networks of friends, mentors, and colleagues. Having a reliable support system allows them to share experiences, gain insights, and receive encouragement during challenging times. This social support contributes significantly to their ability to bounce back. I found several business owners to be a great resource of wisdom.

6. Focus on Controllable Factors:

Instead of dwelling on factors beyond their control, top performers focus on what they can influence. This proactive approach empowers them to take action where possible, leading to a sense of control and reduced feelings of helplessness.

7. Self-Awareness:

Resilient individuals engage in regular self-reflection. This involves examining their reactions, emotions, and behaviors in response to challenges. By understanding themselves better, they can make intentional choices that contribute to their resilience. Taking a moment to reflect on why I might feel the way I do helps me determine my next action.

8. Seek discomfort:

Comfort breeds passivity. Top performers understand that growth happens after enduring difficulty. Do something uncomfortable every week to build mental strength. Personally, the grittiness of CrossFit and the pain of martial arts work for me. In some ways, this newsletter forces me out of my little box as well. Find something that works for you!

Resilience, or the ability to recover from difficulty, is a trait that should be developed if you intend to become a high performer. There are no shortcuts for this one. Make the pain work for you and become something more!

The writer has two graduate degrees: one being in mental health counseling.

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